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100 1  Howerton, Kristen,|0https://id.loc.gov/authorities/names/
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245 10 Rage against the minivan :|blearning to parent without 
       perfection /|cKristen Howerton. 
250    First edition. 
264  1 New York :|bConvergent,|c[2020] 
300    viii, 202 pages :|billustrations ;|c22 cm 
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505 00 |tInternet is full of $*!# and so am I --|tPoop, there it 
       is --|tReady, set, nope: How to fail at motherhood before 
       you even start --|tMiracle baby --|tI "had it all," right 
       on the front of my shirt --|tGive me downtime or give me 
       death --|t#Assholeparent --|tAmbiguity, for sure --|tBut 
       they are such cute little narcissists... --|tSmells like 
       teen spirit --|tIs you is or is you ain't my baby --|tMyth
       of colorblindness --|tChecking email is the new churning 
       butter --|tDad privilege --|tOpting out --|tCheerleaders 
       and ass-kickers --|tShaken --|tWhat is love? (Baby, don't 
       hurt me) --|t"Sleep when the baby sleeps" and other lies -
       -|tSkin in the game --|tVwazinaj se fanmi (The 
       neighborhood is the family) --|tDoes this divorce make my 
       brand look bad? --|tType-A mom, B+ family: Excelling at 
       average --|tOpting in --|tIt gets better: The light at the
       end of the laundry room. 
520    "A heartfelt, subversively funny memoir and a bold 
       personal manifesto that pushes back against the 
       superficial expectations of motherhood -- and challenges 
       the idea that there's a "right" way to raise kids. With 
       hard-won knowledge gained from having four kids in four 
       years, Kristen Howerton navigates the emotional and 
       sometimes messy waters of motherhood, sharing valuable 
       lessons from her journey through infertility, adoption, 
       pregnancy, toddler tantrums, divorce, and the shock and 
       awe of parenting teens. Howerton recounts how she learned 
       to opt out from the pressure to do it all perfectly. As a 
       mom of both white and black children and a licensed 
       therapist, Howerton talks frankly about the thorny issues 
       parents face today, whether it's finding good mom friends,
       confronting racism, disciplining other people's kids, or 
       falling short of that elusive work/life balance. 
       Howerton's experience--the expectations, the stress, the 
       total lack of control, and yes, the indignities of driving
       a minivan (which now sits in her driveway littered with 
       crushed Cheetos and the remnants of her self-esteem)--
       along with her ability to laugh at herself, reminds 
       parents they are not alone on this unpredictable ride"--
       |cProvided by publisher. 
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650  0 Motherhood|vHumor.|0https://id.loc.gov/authorities/
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650  0 Parenting.|0https://id.loc.gov/authorities/subjects/
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776 08 |iOnline version:|aHowerton, Kristen.|tRage against the 
       minivan|bFirst edition.|dNew York : Convergent, [2020]
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