LEADER 00000cam a2200361 a 4500 001 ocn606760460 005 20120626104513.0 008 100520s2010 cau b 001 0 eng 010 2010020836 015 GBB072768|2bnb 016 7 015578033|2Uk 020 9780520267138 (alk. paper) 020 0520267133 035 (OCoLC)ocn606760460 035 556571 040 DLC|cDLC|dYDX|dBTCTA|dYDXCP|dUKM|dBWX|dCDX|dORX|dIXA|dIG# |dNLGGC|dLMR|dVP@|dNSB|dUKMGB|dMIX 049 RIDM 050 00 HQ759|b.A436 2010 082 00 306.874/3|222 084 71.33|2bcl 090 HQ759 .A436 2010 100 1 Almond, Barbara. 245 14 The monster within :|bthe hidden side of motherhood / |cBarbara Almond. 260 Berkeley :|bUniversity of California Press,|cc2010. 300 xxvi, 265 p. ;|c22 cm. 504 Includes bibliographical references and index. 505 0 The ubiquity of maternal ambivalence -- Motherlove: the power of maternal desire -- The subtle ambivalence of the too-good mother -- "Before the beginning": women's fears of monstrous births -- Women's reproductive fears: more clinical examples -- Rachel's story: internalized ambivalence and the dangers of hidden guilt -- Whose fault is it? The externalization of ambivalence -- When fears are realized -- From the child's point of view -- Vampyric mothering: from stage moms to invasive moms -- The darkest side of motherhood: child murder -- What happens later: the fate of maternal ambivalence -- What's a mother to do? 520 Mixed feelings about motherhood, uncertainty over having a child, fears of pregnancy and childbirth, or negative thoughts about one's own children, are not just hard to discuss, they are a powerful social taboo. In this book, the author brings this issue to light. She uncovers the roots of ambivalence, tells how it manifests in lives of women and their children, and describes a spectrum of maternal behavior, from normal feelings to highly disturbed mothering. In a society where perfection in parenting is the unattainable ideal, this book also shows how women can affect positive change in their lives. 650 0 Motherhood|xPsychological aspects. 650 0 Mother and child|xPsychological aspects. 650 0 Love, Maternal|xPsychological aspects. 935 556571 948 |d20120125|cMH|tcr 650xdelete|lridm|v1 994 C0|bRID
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